The Dump Him Podcast
Welcome to The Dump Him Podcast, discussing all things modern day dating, how to know your worth, and when you should just dump him! New episodes weekly, hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates. Follow us on Instagram @thedumphimpodcast
Episodes
41 episodes
S2E20: Life updates, liking another girl's photos and taking a guy to girls' night
It's our final episode of Series 2 (cry!), and today we're chatting about our dating lives heading into Hot Girl Summer 2021, and answering two listener dilemmas about shady Instagram likes and whether to go to the same uni as your boyfriend. W...
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Season 2
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Episode 20
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38:02
S2E19: Can guys and girls ever be friends?
In our penultimate episode of Series 2, Kitty gives an update on her dates with Finance Guy, and we wonder when is the right time to meet the friends. Plus - we discuss whether guys and girls can ever be platonic, or is it always something more...
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Season 2
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Episode 19
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32:36
S2E18: LGBTQ+ dating and why allyship is important with Scott Flashheart
In this week's episode, we're joined by Scott Flashheart from the multi award-winning LGBTQ+ podcast Probably True, to chat all about queer dating, coming out, and why it's so important - and easy - to be an ally.You can check out Scott's f...
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Season 2
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Episode 18
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44:11
S2E17: Finance Guy, wannabe cheaters and hangovers
Introducing a new character to the TDHP story: Kitty's new squeeze, Finance Guy. Will she get the rooftop bar date she's been longing for? Also, Francesca's fending off guys with questionable morals, and we debate the age-old question - should ...
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Season 2
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Episode 17
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39:53
S2E16: Reality TV, social media comments and wedding bells with Maeva D'Ascanio and James Taylor
This week, we were joined by Made in Chelsea power couple Maeva and James, to talk all about what it's like to watch their relationship play out on screen, life in lockdown and their plans for the future. It was great to chat about the side of ...
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Season 2
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Episode 16
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45:24
S2E15: Shoplifting boyfriends, bed wetting and Kitty's spontaneous date
In this week's episode, a slightly hungover Kitty tells all the juicy details about her spontaneous late night date, and we talk about the most surprising things a partner could do in a relationship. Spoiler alert, it includes fraud and wet bed...
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Season 2
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Episode 15
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42:43
S2E14: Alpha males and secrets of the guy code with Manny Santana
This week, we're joined by professional matchmaker and dating coach Manny Santana, who told us all about the meaning of being alpha and beta, and shared his theories around romantic mode and erotic mode (and being hot and cold!). If you've ever...
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Season 2
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Episode 14
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1:00:35
S2E13: Is sex the be-all and end-all?
In this week's episode we hear all about Kitty's recent drama in the dms, and Francesca's giving up all hope of love entirely. Plus, we shared our feelings as we come out of lockdown, and we talked all about sex, sexting and feeling horny. How ...
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Season 2
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Episode 13
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50:28
S2E12: Body language, narcissists and intelligent dating with Lily Walford
In this week's episode, we're joined by Lily Walford from Love with Intelligence, an international dating coach and expert in behavioural profiling, to talk all about the body language of liars, the behaviour of narcissists, and how to date int...
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Season 2
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Episode 12
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1:06:33
S2E11: Kitty's dating mishap and the Fear Of Better Options
Kitty's back in the dating game, with an awkward case of mistaken identity from her first lockdown date... Also, we chat all about how our FOBO is causing commitment issues, and ask the question - how do you know when you 'know'?The Dump Hi...
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Season 2
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Episode 11
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49:03
S2E10: Body confidence, periods and sex education with Rakhi Sachdev
This week, we're joined by Rakhi, a body positivity coach who helps women develop their connection to their bodies - and we chatted all about body confidence in lockdown, self care and how women feel pleasure. To hear more from Rakhi, you c...
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Season 2
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Episode 10
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56:45
S2E9: Francesca has an OnlyFans?
This week, we catch up on our progress for March's self care month, then take a deep dive into our Tinder messages and tell you which chat up lines (if any) work on us...The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, di...
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Season 2
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Episode 9
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50:54
S2E8: A real-life sugar baby spills the tea
We decided to follow up our last episode, 'We joined a sugar daddy dating site so you don't have to', by interviewing an anonymous sugar baby, who told us all about her time dating older men from sugar dating sites, and all the financial benefi...
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Season 2
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Episode 8
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47:20
S2E7: We joined a sugar daddy dating site so you don't have to
Ever wondered what happens on sugar daddy/sugar baby dating sites? We certainly did... so Francesca went undercover to get the inside scoop, so you don't have to! The Dump Him Podcast is hosted by Kitty James and Francesca Coates, disc...
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Season 2
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Episode 7
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54:30
S2E6: Sober sex, dating while drunk and hangover anxiety with Millie Gooch
This week we're joined by Millie Gooch, founder of The Sober Girl Society, a platform for sober-curious and teetotal women. Millie told us all about dating as a sober girl, how to approach sober sex and ways to enjoy a life without alcohol. Cou...
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Season 2
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Episode 6
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49:19
S2E5: Speed dating, giving up on ghosting and the results of our Hinge experiment
In this week's episode, recorded on Valentine's Day, we've got a full debrief on our virtual speed dating event, and we're fed up of being ghosted on dating apps. We've also got the very scientific results of our Hinge experiment, and we give a...
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Season 2
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Episode 5
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47:35
S2E4: Worst dates and friendzoning with the All I Do Is Fail Podcast
This week, we're joined by Tom and Ali from All I Do Is Fail, who chatted to us all about their worst dates and how they friendzone people, in the most ambitious podcast crossover event of the year (unofficially).You can hear more of the gu...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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1:02:13
S2E3: Impersonating each other on Hinge, vegan dating and tracking delivery men
This week, we're beginning our new experiment - we'll be impersonating each other on Hinge and setting each other up on blind Zoom dates in the process! Could this be the answer to all our online dating woes? Plus, Kitty got dumped for being ve...
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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30:51
S2E2: Asking an expert about retroactive jealousy with Eva @relationshipanxiety_therapist
In this episode, we chat to Eva, a relationship therapist specialising in relationship OCD and retroactive jealousy, and learn all about whether jealousy is normal in a relationship and how to heal from past wounds. You can find Eva on...
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Season 2
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Episode 2
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43:52
S2E1: Season 2, dating bad drivers and our upcoming event
We're back baby! Welcome to Season 2 of The Dump Him Podcast. This week, we're catching up on our recent love life development and announcing our upcoming virtual dating event! We also chat all about bad drivers - and the struggle of dating the...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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45:30
S1E21: Tiger King, masks and Tinder Passport - dating in 2020
It's our series finale, and we're looking back at dating in 2020 - from Tik Tok to Tinder bios, how has dating changed this year? We talk about key events from the year we'd all like to forget, and how dating behind a mask has affected our own ...
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Season 1
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Episode 21
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44:50
S1E20: Tinder bios, lads' holidays and first dates with Joe and Kieran
This week, we're joined by our pals Joe and Kieran, who'll be revealing what guys really think on first dates and what really goes down on lads' holidays... Plus, find out what makes a good Tinder bio and how girls should start a convo. Don't s...
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Season 1
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Episode 20
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54:01
S1E19: Zoom dates, #bodygoals and bumping into our exes
This week, we chatted all about Kitty's recent Zoom date, and answered a listener's dilemma about how to handle bumping into her ex. Also, find out what Francesca's been up to on Hinge in lockdown, and why we think Instagram diet culture has go...
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Season 1
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Episode 19
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36:15
S1E18: Mental health, dating and healing with @thewaffleshoppodcast
(Trigger warning: mental health, suicide and OCD)UK Samaritans Helpline: 116 123US Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255In this episode we are joined by our wonderful guest Taylor from The Waffle Shop Podcast. We discuss all t...
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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1:02:55
S1E17: Our worst dates ever, The Banker and having Covid-19
We've been a bit AWOL recently, but we have good reason - this week Francesca explains all about her recent bout of Covid and we talk about our worst dates ever. Also, find out what happened on Kitty's second date with The Banker! The ...
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Season 1
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Episode 17
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56:10